Came across this article and thought I'd share...although it doesn't apply directly to me just quite yet, I do believe it has some brilliant tips on setting limits and getting what you want from your kids.
A reader writes, "Dr. Laura – I'm not one of those 'Count to 3 and They Jump' parents. I was raised that way and it always seems to involve threats and harshness. But I do want my kids to listen to me, and to take No for an answer. For instance, when I say 'It's time to clean up' they ignore me unless I yell. What's the secret?" -- Danielle
Can you relate? I know I can just from my nannying/babysitting/auntying days. Plus Jude's been known to throw a legit tantrum these days so I know it's-a-coming.
Read more here.
good tips. thank you! i've also found that giving two choices to the child (both that are acceptable to you), makes them feel empowered and you still get your way!
ReplyDeleteI like it. I'll try it. Just you wait, Lisa ;)
ReplyDeleteditto to what you both said. parenting ain't no piece of cake. and, any way i can avoid a battle i like!
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